I’m not sure about you but January felt like one of the longest months ever. Between the rioters that tried to takeover the US Capitol Building, the inauguration of a new president, uncertainty about what was happening with the elections in Georgia, the continued ongoing uncertainty with Covid.
2/2/2021 Update:
401K $114,241
Roth IRA $9,447
M1 Acct $1,498
Crypto $168
HSA $687
Total Investments $126,041
12/31/2020 my total was $119,276, so I’m up $6,765 or 5.6%. Going back to 1/22 I had $76k in investments and $7266 in debt so effectively $68,939. So I’m up $57k or 82.8%. Excluding my emergency fund account from these balances going forward but it is still helpful when looking at my total net worth. I did buy 3 shares of SLV, the iShares Silver Trust in my Roth IRA since I missed the rise of Gamestop and I think silver is smart to hold as a long-term investment.
Credit Cards: $475
I don’t usually carry a credit card balance, but I had a $700 vet bill. My 14 year old dog needed to have 6 teeth pulled, in addition to her dental cleaning, associated anesthesia and pain medication. Pets aren’t cheap but I still love mine regardless.
I’ve been taking a bit of a break from social media, Facebook specificially. Deleted the app from my phone and suspended my account for a while. I was definitely addicted to it. I felt a need to check it at least once or twice per hour. Doing that I started compare my life to others, some of whom are friends / acquaintences I know. Basically almost none of them have messaged me the past year. A few I haven’t seen in multiple years. I nautrally ended up comparing my life to theirs and feeling bad in the process seeing their anniversaries, vacations in Puerto Vallarta, Hawaii, Florida and other places. Or seeing them have celebrations as a group that I wasn’t invited to. Rinse repeat like 30x a day. No thank you…
Keeping myself busy has been a big help, in addition to working on my 1:1 communication with others. Online isn’t the same as in-person but it’s way better than being completely solo. I also will go back to playing kickball in a few months. That really helped me improve my mood quite a bit.
So let’s move onto a topic that was the bane of my existence last week. I kept stepping into a wet spot on the carpet. It was right near my dog’s water bowl so I assumed she was just drinking water sloppily. However the amount of water was steadily increasing. I stepped in it multiple times. It didn’t have a sewage smell so I didn’t immediately put two and two together. I eventually put in a maintenance request…
The maintenance man had to rip several holes in the sheetrock to get to the pipe. He confirmed there was a leak but a plumber had to get involved, adding a day… Then had to come back the following day to patch up the sheetrock he cut up and spackle back over it. Add one more day for the carpet guy to replace the padding under the carpet before they could do a cleaning. The truck had some type of loud diesel-smelling generator I could definitely smell inside. Also they’ve been doing some patio fencework repair so lots of sawing and hammering while I’m on conference calls. I guess it could always be worse and none of this came out of my pocket.

I continue cutting my own hair. I honestly don’t need to pay a pro to do it. This is like Corona-cut number 9 or 10, I lost track.


Started going to a gym closer to my apartment. It’s pretty empty most of the time and clean, two things that I really appreciate in this current climate. I also am wanting to lose 1% of my body fat a week. That’s about 2-3 pounds a week. The cold has been ruining my plans but I think it’s doable.
I know I sound like a broken record here but I’m extremely thankful for all the things that are going well in my life right now. I know people were furloghed, laid off, working multiple low paying jobs to make ends meet, trying to live off unemployment without any kind of safety net, got their car repoed. I hope they are able to figure things out. Still not a millionaire but I can at least plant more and more seeds with the goal of becoming one eventually.
Last but not least I highly recommend How Not to Become a Millennial: Learning from America’s Largest Sociological Disaster and The Black Man’s Guide Out of Poverty: For Black Men Who Demand Better. I’m lucky to have a mother who lectured me ad nauseum about what not to do… and knew enough people in my family who made decisions that ended up negatively impacting them later in life. The sad thing is a lot of people don’t want to acknowledge the truth. I can be stubborn as the rest of them but knowing is liberating in a way. When you know where your finances are, what your career trajectory is, what your weight, blood tests and blood pressure look like, you can start making the necessary changes.
Alpha M., a popular YouTuber recently had a health scare. He was inspired to get tested in light of what happened to Chadwick Boseman and they found some potentially much more serious issues had they gone unattended. Even more recently Dustin Diamond who many of use in our 30s and 40s grew up watching on Saved by Bell passed away from a rare but aggressive form of lung cancer. Not everything is preventable as was evident from my father and aunt’s genetic autoimmune disorders but lots of things are.
I hope I live a rich long life like the dearly departed Cicely Tyson, Hank Aaron, and Cloris Leachman. It’s midnight again and time for me to get ready for bed.