I officially hate the word ‘Stimmy’, it’s kinda funny to me people call it that.

So March was an interesting month. I’ve been enjoying more of my photography hobby. I keep telling myself that I need to create magic in my daily routine otherwise it’s never going to happen.

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Today I got my stimulus check in the mail from the United States Treasury. It’s not a huge amount at $1,400, but it definitely will be growing into a lot more over time. It also allowed me to make my final Roth IRA contribution for 2020, hitting the $6,000 max for the first time in my entire life.

Currently at 37 I have more invested than the average person in their 50s. Sure I don’t have the house but that shit is expensive relative to my income. Ideally I will be in a spot where my passive income allows me to buy the things I want. For example if I have $500k saved, buying a $30k slightly used 1-3 year old car really isn’t that big a deal. Or if I have $700k, buying a $200k house with a mortgage sounds pretty reasonable. I’m about a decade out from hitting that milestone assuming things stay fairly steady.

I made a 19.5% pre-tax return on my cryptocurrency holdings in 3 months. The amount of money invested was only a couple hundred so I’m not rolling in the dough. I do think crypto is crazy overvalued right now and there is a lot of uncertainty. I didn’t want to be the one left holding the bag so I sold it all. If it has a major dip I will consider buying again.

3/27/21
401K: $123,653 (including pending contributions)
Roth IRA: $12,484
M1 Acct $1,566
Crypto: $0
HSA $1,303
Total Investments: $139,006

2/28 Update:
401K: $117,738 (including my pending contribution)
Roth IRA: $10,239 
M1 Acct: $1,452 
Crypto: $181
HSA: $1,037 
Total Investments $130,647

I still didn’t touch the emergency fund, nor am I including that or money in my checking account here.

That makes my net worth $8,359 or 6.4% higher than it was last month. March 2020 I only had a $50k net worth. 178% higher right now and yes it took lots of sacrifies but not too shabby. Still no debt and loving every moment of it. This might be sustainable if I don’t let consumerism get the best of me. The market is near record highs so there’s that too. Still expect things to crash and burn at some point like 2020. Just $6000 more on the Roth for 2021. $6k / 11 months = $545. $272 a paycheck, I got this.

I’m still thinking about other life priorities. Do I move or just do enough things outside the apartment with all the cash I’m saving including saving for something nicer. I know I sound like a broken record but 6+ years is a long time in one unit. Especially when you literally have never invited a single neighbor in the other 159 units to your apartment and the only person you really know in the zip code of 135k people you don’t get along with. Just keeping it real, after 5 tries it’s a lost cause.

Do I move when this lease is up? Do I wait until I hit some arbitrary number maybe $200k? $250k? What really would make me happy? All questions I find myself struggling to find answers for. I don’t have the energy or drinking capacity I had in my 20s and that makese me sad sometimes.

What are you doing with your stimulus check? How is 2021 treating you?

I made another video, enjoy. Surprised my last one got 25 views!

The post I’ve been putting off for weeks. I experienced some recent losses lately…
The second was the loss of someone I’ve been friends with for over 15 years. His name was Ryan, he lived just a couple miles away from me when I lived on Long Island. Like me, he started out working in a regional grocery store and wasn’t sure about his future career. He eventually started landing writing gigs, moved to NYC, and became CEO of the site Manhattan Digest. He also was into food blogging and wasn’t ashamed about being who he was. I saw some messages from 2011 we exchanged where he was struggling to make any money from writing. Only 34 years old and it was Covid-related. It all happened so quick, he posted regular social media updates of what was happening. Then all of a sudden the posts stopped. I learned he passed from one of our mutual friends, and saw several posts from his sister on his status later on. I cried and just wasn’t sure how process it all. I thought maybe I’d see him again next time I went to NYC.

The first was the loss of one of my aunts, she was 74 and had some health problems. I was a lot closer to her as a child and leading up to the time my father passed away. Then we kind of lost touch. I called her once after I moved to Texas, she was friendly as always. We just didn’t have a ton to talk about. No one in the family told me either via phone or even sent me a message. I learned 2 weeks after it happened via Facebook. I was quite upset about that, felt like the wind got knocked out of me. I also wasn’t able to attend or even see the service, there also was a bad snowstorm in NY at the same so even if I flew it probably would’ve been delayed. I planned to visit last year during my planned trip to see my mom for her 60th birthday. Then Covid happened and that trip got cancelled. I haven’t seen family on my father’s side in almost 5 years (I wish we were closer than we are but it is what it is), have no siblings, and on my mom’s side no one in person for over 800 days.

Then yesterday a guy I went on two dates with and messaged back and forth daily for 2 weeks said he felt like something was missing and didn’t think another date was right for us. I read the text literally after I finished brunch with a friend and was grabbing a few drinks. Maybe I drank a little more than I should have. It’s hard to date during a pandemic, and the last couple guys I had a strong interest in dating really left me feeling broken. I try to forget bad past experiences, but they seem to keep happening over and over again. Then a different guy I matched with, exchanged some messages with for half the day and was having a somewhat normal conversation with drops “sorry to do this but I just ended a relationship recently and I thought I was ready but I don’t think so now”. We were just supposed to meet for a beverage… Straight people have it a lot easier. February has been a rough month, I’m glad it’s almost over.

So let’s move onto personal finances.

2/28 Update:
401K: $117,738 (including my pending contribution)
Roth IRA: $10,239 
M1 Acct: $1,452 
Crypto: $181
HSA: $1,037 
Total Investments $130,647
I was tempted to touch the emergency fund to cover a small credit card balance or more quickly contribute to the Roth IRA 2020 cutoff but decided not to. The market had a couple of rough days last week. Still managed to grow my portfolio by $4,606 or 3.65% higher than last month. Had another vet bill to the tune of $250, this time for some annual tests plus treatment for some growth in her ear. So that, plus a $195 tax bill, several dates, the $200 dehumidifer, and a meal plan service I signed up for. Just a year ago I had $80k in retirement and $6,975 in debt. My net worth is up 79% from 2/22/2020, still not where I want it to be, but still nothing to scoff at. I read somewhere that once you pass the age of 30 you should only compare yourself to where you were previously, not to others. In your 20s, you and your peers are beginning from generally the same starting line but so many things are unique to individual situations after that.

I’m probably on the border of a mid-life crisis. Not sure if I should stay in this apartment, in this city, heck even in the state of Texas. Not sure if I should go for a low cost STEM related degee online, or maybe work on my skills in my current industry. Maybe I need to travel somewhere, been super stir crazy. Still no word yet on a date for the vaccine. I registered in two separate counties, one last week and the first in late January. Things could be a lot worse I know. I didn’t lose power, or get stuck with a $700 electricity bill like Harlan of Out and Out (terrific travel / points / lifestyle / personal finance site) did. I watched someone I follow on YouTube whose girlfriend got sick and had to be hospitalized. He paid for her rent for a month but he’s also on unemployment. Yikes!

In spite of this I did have a good weekend in Deep Ellum. Cool place but a bit more congested than I’m used to in the burbs. Anywhere you have to circle the streets 4 or 5 times to find a paid parking spot on the street or pay even more to use a parking lot a bit extra to me. Either way cool place to grab drinks/food, shoot the shit, and admire the art. North Dallas lacks culture. I’m looking forward to March, doing a mental reset and to start making some solid gains.

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Last but not least I hope good things are happening in your lives. Hard to believe I’ve been blogging here for almost 9 years. Net worth is up almost 4X in that timeframe and that’s with buying 2 new cars…. I was such a hot mess back in the early days…